|A girls day out at the zoo - don't let the photo fool you - |
JJ WAS having a really good time before I broke for a photo op.
First, let's get the disclaimers out of the way:
- We are a blessed family in all kinds of ways - including having two happily working parents. We love our jobs, the companies we work for, the things we do and who we work with.
- I'm happy to be able to have a job to go back to.
- My maternity leave + vacation time brought us most of the way through the 4 months I am able to take advantage of. The remainder, while unpaid, we made it work. Planning ahead as best we could and changing our plans made it work. Missing a visit home, that sucked. Not falling down the Target hole of spending, yeah that was easy (enough). That said, I have a sneaking suspicion after the holidays? Target is going to get hit hard by yours truly. Bam.
I am excited to go back to work, to get started on some projects that I know are going to be on my plate and the possibility of the projects in the future. My job is something I have been trying to work on for years. I'm lucky. And if I may be so bold, more than luck? I worked hard. I work hard.
Are we clear? Good.
Let me also make it clear the last few months have been special. Beyond special. With L, the experience was tainted. For a month, we went through the hardest in our life (thus far, and if I may be so bold - I'm all set with levels of hard times). When we got home things moved so quickly - family and friends came and went, our au pair arrived sooner than it turned out we needed help and the next thing I knew the adult to baby ratio was 3:1 and life was different. It was important to me this time that things were different than the first time around. The last few weeks it's just been me & my girls. Of course we had the family come and go and some serious help for the first few weeks but this time was different. Success. For the last few weeks it's been me & my girls. Some days were more tiring than others and without my baby daddy I may have gone mental.... but when I look back at our blessings - the last few weeks shine. Even though as I type this I'm fairly certain I have some dried puke on my shoulder. It's been a refocusing time - spotlighting what really matters.
Next week, I'm back to work but I'll do all it takes to stay focused so that when it's time to shut down I can do so. And make sure I still get to spend times with my family, because they are what is important. And while I won't be with my girls during the day - like I can be now - I'll be able to focus on them with a different kind of energy.
Are we clear? Good.
Disclaimer: I reserve the right to review this here post when or if things get foggy. No one is perfect, least of all me.